DTHOMAS has an Off night!
| posted by Attractology Sunday, December 16, 2007 | 0 Comments |
what's up ladies, fellas, and anyone else who falls in between
So it's been... hmmm a week I think. I can't really remember but anyway i just wanted to catch everyone up on my activities. This last week was so busy I barely had any time for myself. Sometimes I love the feeling of being productive and knowing I am moving forward rather than standing still. Other times I wish I could just sit home and do absolutely nothing! Just indulge in my reality, and thoughts and have a calm night of nothing. Unfortunately this last week didn't provide such a night but some interesting things did happen.
On Wednesday I met a super cool girl named Kelly. She plays soccer competitively and when I played with her and some other people, she was easily as good as I if not better. For those of you who don't know, I am a retired collegiate soccer player who hasn't really played competitively for nearly four years. I used to be good but nowadays it's a different story. Nonetheless, when I go out a play in big co-ed groups, my lengthy experience with the sport provides a nice crutch for attraction especially when everyone is terrible. You are almost slotted as the alpha male leader without demonstrating much more than you are a strong athlete (or used to be). So after much apha-ing and playing, i noticed this girl who was also good. I introduced myself directly with a big smile and complimented her skills but told her she was no match for me. It was a bold move. But I am a bold person. The rest of the game there was all kinds of flirtatious banter between the two of us. Just that and I could tell there was chemistry between us. At the end I took her number and told her I would give her a call the next time a game was put together. Not profound but really most of the little things that happen in attraction are never profound. They are subtle and just seem to unfold.
On Thursday, we went out with some guys. And i am going to be completely honest. MY GAME was utter SHIT. Yes every Pick up artists has his off nights and Thursday was mine. The first few warm up sets went well but the the girls we were chatting up, were far from attractive. Potential friends yes....lovers, girlfriends.... Not a chance. We bounce to a different venue and I start approaching but like I said, my game was weak. I let the conversations lull, i couldn't find the beat on the dance floor and my head was in clouds.. Generally, I can self correct in an instance but tonight I wasn't able to. And I went home at closing...dick in hand. Hey..it happens!
The prof had closed that night and was heading home with his girl to her house. I hopped a cab with some AFCs I've been recently helping. Surprisingly, they were still moderately impressed with my game. I didn't know what they were thinking.. but fuck it. My standards are high for an outing, even though I try to go without standards all together. I guess you sort of have to walk that "try to not try" line. Well tonight I'm off to a cocktail party with some friends and fellow PUAs. There are going to be many many ladies there and I am confident I can charm the pants off of them. Happy holidays, friends, lovers, everyone.
-Dthomas
So it's been... hmmm a week I think. I can't really remember but anyway i just wanted to catch everyone up on my activities. This last week was so busy I barely had any time for myself. Sometimes I love the feeling of being productive and knowing I am moving forward rather than standing still. Other times I wish I could just sit home and do absolutely nothing! Just indulge in my reality, and thoughts and have a calm night of nothing. Unfortunately this last week didn't provide such a night but some interesting things did happen.
On Wednesday I met a super cool girl named Kelly. She plays soccer competitively and when I played with her and some other people, she was easily as good as I if not better. For those of you who don't know, I am a retired collegiate soccer player who hasn't really played competitively for nearly four years. I used to be good but nowadays it's a different story. Nonetheless, when I go out a play in big co-ed groups, my lengthy experience with the sport provides a nice crutch for attraction especially when everyone is terrible. You are almost slotted as the alpha male leader without demonstrating much more than you are a strong athlete (or used to be). So after much apha-ing and playing, i noticed this girl who was also good. I introduced myself directly with a big smile and complimented her skills but told her she was no match for me. It was a bold move. But I am a bold person. The rest of the game there was all kinds of flirtatious banter between the two of us. Just that and I could tell there was chemistry between us. At the end I took her number and told her I would give her a call the next time a game was put together. Not profound but really most of the little things that happen in attraction are never profound. They are subtle and just seem to unfold.
On Thursday, we went out with some guys. And i am going to be completely honest. MY GAME was utter SHIT. Yes every Pick up artists has his off nights and Thursday was mine. The first few warm up sets went well but the the girls we were chatting up, were far from attractive. Potential friends yes....lovers, girlfriends.... Not a chance. We bounce to a different venue and I start approaching but like I said, my game was weak. I let the conversations lull, i couldn't find the beat on the dance floor and my head was in clouds.. Generally, I can self correct in an instance but tonight I wasn't able to. And I went home at closing...dick in hand. Hey..it happens!
The prof had closed that night and was heading home with his girl to her house. I hopped a cab with some AFCs I've been recently helping. Surprisingly, they were still moderately impressed with my game. I didn't know what they were thinking.. but fuck it. My standards are high for an outing, even though I try to go without standards all together. I guess you sort of have to walk that "try to not try" line. Well tonight I'm off to a cocktail party with some friends and fellow PUAs. There are going to be many many ladies there and I am confident I can charm the pants off of them. Happy holidays, friends, lovers, everyone.
-Dthomas
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