Ok so, I'm going to attempt to type with my left hand (I broke my right wrist snowboarding) so please excuse me if there are any typos or errors...


I'm writing this for two reasons, first is because I had such a great time and I think theres a lot of value in sharing about my experience, and secondly, there were a few things that we did that allowed this trip to be as memorable as it was.

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What's happening everyone. I want to just go over a specific instance that I encountered last night from a girl who was skeptical about the game. Here it is.

I was confronted by a girl last night .. a cute girl. As it turned out she was the new girlfriend of my good friend we'll call Jay who I hadn't seen in a few weeks. She seemed sweet and there was an interesting almost silent chemistry between the two. Note:This guy is a 22 year old virgin that is amazingly fit and good looking. But he has always been socially distant and has a difficult time relating to people. Nonetheless it was refreshing to see a friend who hasn't had much luck with women finally meet, attract and date a very cool one.

Anyway so we are out at the bar just chatting up a few people we had met basically shooting the shit. Wasn't in full swing sarge mode because..well..it wasn't necessary. i had a blond (previous hook up) buying me drinks who was working another guy at the same time. Been there. done that. And I was enjoying the company of my friends. Out of the blue, Jay's girlfriend brings up Attractology in a passive aggressive subtle way. Apparently Jay (who is(was up till now)virgin, AFC) told her about his disdain for the game and learning how to attract using theory and models and what not. She, like him, have never really explored what the game is, they just both "hate it" regardless because it sounds unnatural and manipulative.

And so she started firing questions basically grounded in "why are you trying to mess with fate?" She asked about routines, theories, our credentials and came back a point of "well, Jay didn't have to do any of that." Ohh god, here we go again. For some reason, so many girls like to believe they are above the systems of human nature. They believe that for some reason, the exact way their particular situation worked out was based on a uniqueness that no others have even come close to attaining. The cosmos were simply aligned at just the right time.

As much as I want this to be true( and ohh god, I wish it was)I simply know that it is not. And as beautiful, unique and amazing a lot of past relationships have been, I still realize that there are evolutionary and biological undercurrents that permeate every part of them. Don't peg me wrong here. I'm not a robot. I'm empathetic. I love. I fall in love (too often probably). And I am more sensitive than I let people see. But it doesn't mean that I can deny evolution and science. Just like the game. We can choose to know about it or choose not to. But we have to accept it's existence. It is real. It does work. So that means you can either wait in patient frustration and be lonely or you can learn the game and attract women. I don't want to speak for everybody. But for me, luck is only preparation meeting opportunity. I can't wait for something that might happen or might not. I make things happen.

And so it went with our heavy, deep, psychological conversation on attraction. I didn't feel obligated the least bit to succumb to her demands for information. I answered them by choice. I find it intriguing and rewarding to enlighten people. And so I answered her adequately, and like every other single girl and guy who takes the time to learn what we're really teaching and researching. Her skeptical presumptions began to dissipate as her understanding increased. She learned that we aren't just out to "hook up" with girls. She learned we are good, fun loving people with noble intentions.

And she learned that we know more about the game of attraction then she had ever considered. By the end of our 20 minute conversation, her shield had been lowered. What's funny is that I've had these conversations before and they all end this way. Yet again and again some women find it so hard to accept that there was anything but fate involved in them being with their partner. I used to have this naivety and at times I wish I still did. But knowing the reasons "why" certain patterns emerge in attraction, flirting and dating, it's hard to look away.

Rather than accept that some guys get girls and others guys don't, I know, have seen, and experienced different. I know the game works and I know why it works. And it has enriched my life greatly.


---Happy holidays everyone. Don't eat too much. Did you know that the average American gains 7-10 pounds from the time Thanksgiving starts until new years? Crazy. So if your like me and enjoy these holidays as much as I do, work out so you can keep the pounds off. Cheers!
-Dthomas

Labels: attraction, field report, seduction basics

what's up ladies, fellas, and anyone else who falls in between
So it's been... hmmm a week I think. I can't really remember but anyway i just wanted to catch everyone up on my activities. This last week was so busy I barely had any time for myself. Sometimes I love the feeling of being productive and knowing I am moving forward rather than standing still. Other times I wish I could just sit home and do absolutely nothing! Just indulge in my reality, and thoughts and have a calm night of nothing. Unfortunately this last week didn't provide such a night but some interesting things did happen.

On Wednesday I met a super cool girl named Kelly. She plays soccer competitively and when I played with her and some other people, she was easily as good as I if not better. For those of you who don't know, I am a retired collegiate soccer player who hasn't really played competitively for nearly four years. I used to be good but nowadays it's a different story. Nonetheless, when I go out a play in big co-ed groups, my lengthy experience with the sport provides a nice crutch for attraction especially when everyone is terrible. You are almost slotted as the alpha male leader without demonstrating much more than you are a strong athlete (or used to be). So after much apha-ing and playing, i noticed this girl who was also good. I introduced myself directly with a big smile and complimented her skills but told her she was no match for me. It was a bold move. But I am a bold person. The rest of the game there was all kinds of flirtatious banter between the two of us. Just that and I could tell there was chemistry between us. At the end I took her number and told her I would give her a call the next time a game was put together. Not profound but really most of the little things that happen in attraction are never profound. They are subtle and just seem to unfold.

On Thursday, we went out with some guys. And i am going to be completely honest. MY GAME was utter SHIT. Yes every Pick up artists has his off nights and Thursday was mine. The first few warm up sets went well but the the girls we were chatting up, were far from attractive. Potential friends yes....lovers, girlfriends.... Not a chance. We bounce to a different venue and I start approaching but like I said, my game was weak. I let the conversations lull, i couldn't find the beat on the dance floor and my head was in clouds.. Generally, I can self correct in an instance but tonight I wasn't able to. And I went home at closing...dick in hand. Hey..it happens!

The prof had closed that night and was heading home with his girl to her house. I hopped a cab with some AFCs I've been recently helping. Surprisingly, they were still moderately impressed with my game. I didn't know what they were thinking.. but fuck it. My standards are high for an outing, even though I try to go without standards all together. I guess you sort of have to walk that "try to not try" line. Well tonight I'm off to a cocktail party with some friends and fellow PUAs. There are going to be many many ladies there and I am confident I can charm the pants off of them. Happy holidays, friends, lovers, everyone.
-Dthomas

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What's up crew
Dthomas here to catch you up on my recent activities ..


So Saturday night rolls around and my cell has been blowing up like crazy. I wasn't really planning on going out because the previous twos night were quite 'eventful' and long. I won't get into details but you can be assured, my game was on point and the I got the end results to prove it. Anyway, so I finally decide to answer a call from my associate The Professor who had just met these gorgeous foreign girls from Westminster, England who were here for 4 days en route for Vancouver, Canada.


I laugh and say "here we go again."

Strangely enough, the prof was approached by this these 3 girls (and one guy) in the mall of all places and asked about the nightlife here. They struck up a conversation and talked for a few minutes until the Prof finally decided to bring the whole group to 'show them a night on the town." Seriously though, and I've really noticed this lately, once you have gotten a lot the inner game worked out and you appear receptive and friendly, people will just come talk to you. And if your trustworthy and fun, they will want to stay around you.

It isn't always the predator, hunter with his "approach everything with two legs" attitude that gets the girl. Sometimes, just living in your reality and being that friendly, approachable person that can get you results. Anyways, I'm starting to ramble.

So ok, these 3 girls and one dude, come over to our house with a fifth of jagermiester that prof had picked up at the liquor store. As it turns out, two of these girls are really hot (both Brunettes)and one was average. And they had accents which made them 5 times as hot....not even joking. And as it turned out the guy was only a good friend of the girls and was a mad cool guy.

We started drinking and playing a fun game called "Catch Phrase." This game is the shit by the way. If you haven't played it, you are seriously missing out. And the cool thing about it was that the game requires equal teams and since there were 5 of us I offered to pair up with my target, so that were pretty much the same team. This game led way to tons of teasing, kino, little push/pull battles and well teamwork. By the end of the game she was sitting on my lap, holding hands with me, and basically giving me those obvious SOIs.

After the game, I tried the roman soul gaze on her. It has been a while since I have used this one and I don't know why. This little game is so fun and deeply embedded, that by the time I was done with it, I could nearly stick out my hand and touch the electricity between us. At this point, I decided it was time to kiss close. Nothing fancy I just simply said "you are amazing, come here!" I then pulled away and said "that's all you get for now." She laughed and made some remark about "American guys!"

Prof was getting mad amounts attraction from his target but he had the additional challenge of making the guy and other girl feel comfortable and not isolated. I rarely say this....but we needed more dudes at my house. My target was all over me, So I took her hand and told her I wanted to show her my room. We went up to my room and I let a few candles and played her some of my new favorite music. You all should check out Thievery Corporation. They are real chill and provide perfect "getting it on" music.

Anyway we kissed more and talked more. She told me about England and I talked my passion for English Premier league soccer. More kissing. More talking. Finally I decided to escalate. Off came the top. Off came the jeans. And then the LMR kicked in when I started to "feel around" down there. She said something along the lines of "you are just trying to have sex aren't you." I looked her in the eyes and assured her "I never put out on the first date, don't worry we can't take this too far." It didn't really make sense but it provided enough cognitive confusion, for her to just let it go. I just figured she had to throw at least some token resistance to feel good about it. She doesn't want to feel like a slut. And so it went.

Bottoms come off and we switch positions dry humping. GOD I love the female body. Thinking about it now just makes me smile. Nothing is more beautiful than humans in their most primitive clothing. We dry hump more. Note: I like to take things slow. If things are going to happen, then they will. But never force it. It takes all the fun out of it. BUT and this is a big fucking BUT!!!! If you have an obstacle who is adamant about getting his friends back their hotel it can be a problem. AND it was. Just as things we were getting heavy, I get a knock on my door. "hey Emma, we have to go. I"m sobor. Meet me down here in 5 minutes." This ladies and gents is a PUAs worst nightmare. I think I could even feel the pain of blue balls setting in when he said that.

So I did what anyone would have done. I pulled on her logical cards. "I think he is still drunk. he shouldn't drive. We have two big comfy couches they can sleep on. It's no problem , we can give you a ride in the morning." She went out and talked to him and her other friend for a second and came back and said that she and her friends had to get up real early and her guy friend didn't want to waste the 140 bucks they had spent on the hotel. I was going to try to reason more with her, but I could tell by looking at her that she was already out of the mood. AHHHHH. And so she gave me her email and told me to email her. And they departed our house around 2AM.

In retrospect, I am planning on emailing this girl. She was gorgeous and insanely cool. And she had a hotttt accent. OK, so things didn’t go quite as planned, but fortunately my expectations for the night were ummm well nilch and they didn't end that way. Keep your plans open and never get locked into to doing one thing. Who knows, maybe something like this will happen to you. Happy holidays friends. -dthomas

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